Nic…. I am not uncomfortable of you defending an abused human beings.. I always do my best to help such people...I don’t have maid..and I don’t need one.. I can do my house chores and manage my family and work well..

In this particular thread...I agree that she is not supposed to check her phone.. other than that what abuse did you see in here? she said that she gets her whatever she want and take her out for shopping and allow her to mingle with other maids...

She never told that her maid cannot have an affair... all she wanted is to know how to confirm that right?
Then why are you assuming that all the people in this world are abusing maids??

From where you come from, not many people can afford a maid...but from where I come.. we always seen ppl working in our house and in our farms...they are paid well, fed well and treated well....so many of us know how to treat them…