lola red_evil, ganito na lang. okay, i will not bash you or make fun of your feelings and everything else already made fun of on your thread. i will give you the benefit of the doubt and believe/assume that the guy loves you too. i may or may not be in the situation you are in (i may even be in a worse case than yours, hehe) but i will try to understand you for all it's worth.

the thing is, your love isn't the only thing that matters. his love for his family is very important too, and is also worth fighting and living for. they are a major part of who he is as a person and it will never be wrong for him to choose them eventually. for now, do not expect too much even if he constantly tries to reassure you of his feelings for you. think of it as an experience to cherish and make the most out of it while it lasts. the probability that this part of your life is fleeting would make it all the more special. great loves don't really need happy endings and eventually ending up together will just be the icing on the cake.

of course, do not waste your entire life waiting for something that will never come. yes, there are success stories like those several posts earlier but we all know they don't always happen. decide on how long you should wait and put an end to this if nothing happens so you can move on and meet other people maybe. if he really loved you, just think that you'll be the girl he will always regret losing and can't help but think about whenever he gets frustrated in his marriage or whatever it is he ends up doing.