i am just suggesting u, i am not asking u to give up. i have friends and i see them doing these things thats y i am only advicing u so u can keep urself save from these issues. u r woman and woman are acting as wife, sister and mother also... so with these parts i am respecting u and advicing u to have serious talk to him and if he can not marry u then better give ur time to GOD and one day u will find right person for u and he will hold u forever and ever.... just keep this advice with u and can treat me as ur brother or friend or good wisher for u or all the ladies........