Did he actually introduce her to the family? I'm thinking probably, and that he stood up for their relationship. You're guys not willing to do that, instead he's making excuses so he can keep getting his milk for free as they say.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco