That's a pretty black and white view of sexuality Nic. Many studies suggest, especially in the case of women, that our sexuality is much more fluid and not simply gay or straight. There are straight women who want to be gay men, and straight men who want to be gay women and people who define themselves as neither male or female or choose their gender when they wake up in the morning. Gender and sexuality is a very big sphere and if we took away our social conditioning we might find that were all bisexual.

literal people are scary, man, literal people scare me
out there trying to rid the world of its poetry while getting it wrong fundamentally down at the church of "look,it sez right here, see!" Ani Difranco