Olive

I think you make a fair point in regard to opportunities for you, and with your family here, as you say, i can see why you're happy. This is what I like about an open discussion like this, points can be made and (in this case) accepted by somebody who has the opposing view. Well put.

Snessy

I hear you on that point, i spent many hours sitting on a train.

As per my original point, was noting its painful for me. If you like it here, all power to you.

I feel perhaps I have just reached the end of my tether