like i said,i am not looking for certification for what i did.you are free to vent out ur feelings.i shall just clarify those accusations you pointed out against me...
"stupid post"....depends on how you want to look at it.calling the moon a beachball does not make it one :-)
"lack of maturity and intelligence"...maybe i am a bit too modern minded for this world.that's again not my fault.
"BEST FOR YOU"...yes,it is one of the best decisions i have made...besides many others.and i'm happy for it.
"intimacy"...please go through the previous comments.there have been more than one instance when the subject has been brought in and not by me.it's not my opinion.i was surprised that it was brought in.
"your guilt"...as far as my conscience goes,i can confidently say that i plead NOT GUILTY :-)
"the whole world to appreciate me"....i repeat my first comment.i am not here for appreciation.i am my own critic.
"Why the heck should we feel guilt for something we did willingly and not with force"....that's a question you should ask yourself.not to me :-)
"maybe your parents asked you to do so"...they didn't,fyi.this is my decision since my early teens and now i am in doubt as to why parents are being involved in this topic at all.lack of maturity in a feeble attempt to defend your points,perhaps....?
"my parents don’t interfere in my personal life after marriage"....i fail to see the relevance of this statement here.
"Why don’t you ask your husband to change his name as yours"....that's a mighty good idea but it would have worked if he was born without self respect.since both of us are strong individuals,we'd rather keep our names intact.oh and btw,he did have a hearty laugh reading all this :-P said he can't believe that the present generation likes to think in reverse :-D LOL
"Maybe you will feel happier"...thank you,FS.i am quite happy now (touchwood),thank God! :-)
"I seriously think you need some help"...yeah i do.i need some help to make my mind accept worldly stupidity.any suggestions for a good doc?
"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.” ~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)
like i said,i am not looking for certification for what i did.you are free to vent out ur feelings.i shall just clarify those accusations you pointed out against me...
"stupid post"....depends on how you want to look at it.calling the moon a beachball does not make it one :-)
"lack of maturity and intelligence"...maybe i am a bit too modern minded for this world.that's again not my fault.
"BEST FOR YOU"...yes,it is one of the best decisions i have made...besides many others.and i'm happy for it.
"intimacy"...please go through the previous comments.there have been more than one instance when the subject has been brought in and not by me.it's not my opinion.i was surprised that it was brought in.
"your guilt"...as far as my conscience goes,i can confidently say that i plead NOT GUILTY :-)
"the whole world to appreciate me"....i repeat my first comment.i am not here for appreciation.i am my own critic.
"Why the heck should we feel guilt for something we did willingly and not with force"....that's a question you should ask yourself.not to me :-)
"maybe your parents asked you to do so"...they didn't,fyi.this is my decision since my early teens and now i am in doubt as to why parents are being involved in this topic at all.lack of maturity in a feeble attempt to defend your points,perhaps....?
"my parents don’t interfere in my personal life after marriage"....i fail to see the relevance of this statement here.
"Why don’t you ask your husband to change his name as yours"....that's a mighty good idea but it would have worked if he was born without self respect.since both of us are strong individuals,we'd rather keep our names intact.oh and btw,he did have a hearty laugh reading all this :-P said he can't believe that the present generation likes to think in reverse :-D LOL
"Maybe you will feel happier"...thank you,FS.i am quite happy now (touchwood),thank God! :-)
"I seriously think you need some help"...yeah i do.i need some help to make my mind accept worldly stupidity.any suggestions for a good doc?
"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”
~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)