i asked the same question to my qatari colleagues.they all laughed and said the same thing as i said.how can a woman belong to a different family after marriage?it's absurd.it was good to hear such a view from members of one of the most conservative and orthodox societies in the world.

"You are never alone or helpless. The force that guides the stars guides you too.”
~ Amrta Shrii Shrii Anandamurti(Indian born Guru, 1921-1990)