guess i kept answering questions and one thing led to another causing the topic to move off course...

about arguments....i beg to differ.i hate any kind of argument.so what r u doing now,u may ask.i argue online,yes i do.but in person,i am a very quiet person.if anybody comes forward to pick an argument with me,i prefer to maintain total silence and if he/she goes on,i just quietly exit the scene....making the other person look like an idiot....works everytime,u know :-P :-D he he!

marriage should be out of love,u say.like rome was not built in a day,i believe that love does not happen overnight.it will take a while....so initially a bit of practicality is good.sometimes it may even prove to be good in the long run :-)

i don't need to add my in-laws surname to my name to show that i'm part of their family....coz i'm not and will never be.our system works differently,u see.actually we were not allowed to change names ages ago.a woman had no identity beyond her own family.maybe that aspect of our ancestors have been passed on to me in a greater measure :-D

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor