then maybe i'm one of the rare species u don't get to see often :-P

i don't say that marriage is a war as FS pointed out....it certainly is not....but the allowance should always be given that the co-passenger can always get down at some station if he/she chooses to.if he/she doesn't want to,it's her choice.u can't practically chain his/her foot to the seat,can you?if u do,all u get is a grouchy fella! :-D

btw,where did marriage and relationships come into this thread in the first place?we were talking about changing surnames,weren't we?

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor