so u prefer quarrels?sorry then.....i am not a domestic fighter of any calibre....though most couples i know say that occasional fights are good for a marriage.and it all depends on the way u choose to look at it.if u want to look at it like a cold deal,that's ur viewpoint.i see it as a practical life.

and then comes the issue of adjusting.i somehow detest that word....alongwith the word 'compromise'.....u marry to get a better life....not to adjust and compromise.

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor