culture and tradition is one thing....marriage is another.all the masculine superiority in our society were set up by men to suit their interests.and it was rightly so in those days....like i said,the women were only weak dependants who were obliged to men for their very existence.that day and age have long gone.and if i were to follow the culture and tradition of my community....woohoo! :-P i'd rather not talk about it.

i feel sorry for girls who think that marriage is the end of the journey of life for them....like they've reached their ultimate destination.for me,life is a train journey and marriage is an important junction where a co-passenger joined me in my journey.the journey continues and the quality of the rest of the journey depends to a certain extent on the co-passenger.if he's fun and ur type,u'll talk to him and be merry.the journey becomes all the more beautiful.but if he's not ur type,you can always choose to treat him like a co-passenger only.but that does not stop the train :-D

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor