that's why i said lust should be channelized only and ONLY towards your own partner.if u don't harbour such feelings for ur partner then there is certainly something missing in the relationship.love is just a feeling...a virtual thing.but lust is reality.a relationship devoid od lust is,like i said earlier,a bowl of boiled veggies....good for health but best suited for oldies or for ppl with a troublesome stomach ;-)

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor