LOL, ya I should have.

Svelte makes good points, as do Xena and Eagle. I think it just depends on what you want. For some women they've always wanted the husband and kids, but have outrageous ideas of what the husband should be like. Some women just want kids, which in most places they can have on their own. Some aren't fussed by the idea of either. Depends what you want.

"We submit to the majority because we have to. But we are not compelled to call our attitude of subjection a posture of respect." Ambrose Bierce