i wholly agree with this article.a man or a woman cannot be custom made according to your choice.if u come across a person who has more of acceptable traits,i strongly feel that there is no wrong in settling down with him/her.and it's not depending on the age.20 or 30 or 40.okay,the biological clock is a different issue altogether.but on a more personal note,i feel that a person's mind is more flexible during the period of 20-30.they are able to search for the good in their spouse and learn to appreciate that.a single person into their middle age will have seen more of the world and are hence more critical and skeptical of people...which makes making choices more difficult for them....eventually all they are left with is a sense of heartfelt regret and a sense of frustration that they are no longer wanted AND that they can practically do nothing about it.like the article suggests,they feel envious of happy families around them.cultures vary and i don't advocate marriage for everyone.but if u really intend to settle down with someone,i feel that it's pointless to keep waiting for that perfect combination to come your way.c'mon....prince charmings riding on tall white horses happen only in fairy tales.and this is life....not a fairy tale.

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor