are part of the family and family always gets stronger and long lasting on the base of confidence,truth and trust.when the whole structure is standing on the base of lies then it will crumble down one day.
second what about the kids what they going to learn?like father like son and this will go on.
Rather then lying, man should be strong enouhg to handle both sides and keep the balance.Yeh I got to agree should be tactful that doesn't mean lie,tactful mean saying right thing at the right time.