mosti08, my hubby can earn more in the UK too, but the difference is the way of life here. In the UK, he wouldn't see our son during the week, due to a long commute and long working days. You should weigh up your home/work balance and see what's more important to you.

We'd rather have less money in the bank but have quality family life together.

Looking at your package, I would be inclined to ask your employers about school education, that is very pricey here for the British curriculum. Apart from that, I would ask for more basic if you need to send money back to the UK for any commitments you may have there.

Hope this helps!

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