The love which destroys the life of other person is not love but it is sickness.
How can love comes?
Love comes if you keep looking at a certain person? speaking with him.
Love grows like any other thing so if you are happily married maintain your love to your family children and do not look at other person for love because this can destroy your life and others lives.
If you are not happily married you must look back may be you have done bad things cheated other people.
Once you fix yourself and become a good person every thing around you will become ok.
The love which brings hurt is not love but it is mosqiuto which carries diseases.
You steal some ones love today tomorrow others will steal your loved ones.
Distinguish between right and wrong love.