Susie: "He may or may not be aware of his actions- or lack thereof, so while you’re on the topic, mention it. There could be something bothering him as well and perhaps he’ll bring it up" .
yeah, right.. "may be not aware".. is he an idiot? why does she need idiot then?

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes