rein said "in some arranged marriage, the process of falling in love can be seen, but backwards."
True - in many of the arranged marriages, you mean. Some of my friends in arranged marriages are very happy - because it was commitment and responsibility first and foremost - which held the marriage together through the years despite the difficulties and challenges and on and off waning feelings etc.

britexpat said "If love marriages are better , then why i there such a high divorce rate?"
- Correct. Rishimba explained it well -

rishimba said "...in a conservative society, arranges marriages do not break so easily, owing to social and family pressures.."
But it's because of these pressures or if the parties are mature enough individuals to delay self gratification - long enough to stop and think - most of the time, that makes all the difference in sticking it out through thick and thin.

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The Cookie Monster said it.