please...it's not coz of what FS said....she's a dear friend....and she knows me better than to ask that question from her side.she has mentioned specifically that some others have been bombarding her with questions about me (why can't they just ask me themselves?) just coz we're old buddies.i don't see the point in being somewhere where one's presence is a botheration rather than something ppl look forward to.so it's better i make a quiet exit....like they say...better to quit singing when ur voice is still sweet :-)

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor