How dare you compare yourself with African American struggling for Civil rights and at least get the date right. You need to be hosed off. I was asked to read this post and comment and I wish You really had something to say. If you were real this may have been beneficial, but I am convinced your a fake non Qatari and possibly non muslim. I pray I am wrong and that God guides us both. I am aconvert to Islam and I and manyof my Convert friends also use arranged marriages and we are from the West. some peole actually marry on matrimonial sites. If your relationship fails check yourself not the system. If you made wrong choices get over it and move on. No one system is perfect for everyone. I wish you success in life and wisdom from experiences in the past.
I will leave this titled stupid woman only because the stupid person carries no blame only the arrogant / ignorant be they male or female.