The other thread that eco so kindly referred us to summarizes what 'Jihad' is really about, truly Jihad is all about fighting one's inner demons and trying to better one self through improving our interactions with ourselves first, family, neighbors, and our surroundings.

Jihad is about reminding one self that truly our body is only the physical means, and that our presence on this earth is not indefinite and that we will be judged for our actions.

Vulgarity is the conduct of other people, just as falsehoods are the truths of other people.