Few of us in long term relationships are totally in love all the time, every day of every week. It is the richness of experience over time that builds love that you come back to. Sometimes, when your priorities have gotten out of balance: too much work, not enough sleep, not enough time spent together and other things, you may feel like the love is gone. Take the time to go away together to do something fun, get some rest and reconnect and the love will be there. Many successful couples do this quarterly.