Azilana, first of all if she is married , let her sit and talk to her husband how she feels and let them discuss what they want in life from each other... If the guy is married and he is with family, the please think when he can leave the lady for this girl , why he will not leave her for another women.. it is simple...ask ur friend to save her marriage and be happy with the kids and husband...

If we keep on thinking about options, then u will not have anything in life...