too slow? i don't think so on a 5 meter distance from the junction. my hubby even blink the head lights to give caution...

Exactly! You said it:) your hubby blinked the head lights to give caution, but you should know that sometimes blinking for a car while slowing down or going slower means for the one who you are blinking for: Go ahead. He might even raise his hand to say thank you, and you will think that he is waving his hand like telling: What da fck?!. He is telling thank you for slowing down, blinking the head lights to him and let him go!:)

I am not joking. This is what it means sometimes. Depends on the situation and the speed you drive..etc