maybe i should have advocated and had a love marriage afterall.in a pure arranged marriage scenario(as was the case with me),we both hardly knew each other...let alone be in love!duh!even after being officially married for over four months,we're still trying to come in terms with the very idea of having each other in our lives :-/

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor