i wouldn't entirely blame him for doing so.many women have a tendency to take a laid-back attitude when it comes to looks and general attractiveness post-marriage...taking for granted that "now i'm married,what's the use of dolling myself up?"....that is oh-so-wrong!they just fail to realise that at the very end of it,their partner is a MAN.and men are very much like cattle...if all you give them is dried hay day in and day out,they will stray out in seach of fresh grass in the neighbor's compound.it's a natural instinct.can't blame them.so if you want to keep the cattle in your own compound,take the pains to give them the fresh grass they want ;-)

this is my philosophy \m/

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor