somehow,all my closest friends are guys coz i don't really trust my girlfriends as much as i trust them.and guys are so much easier to talk to.i can just be myself without watching my tongue or risking being talked about behind my back (grrrr!oh how i hate that)....i have very successfully maintained pure platonic relationships with a whole lot of guys.i do admit that occasional one-sided and mutual crushes have happened but they were just figments of imagination and passed in the same way as they came on.i am still friends with all of them and we cherish our friendship.the guys seem comfortable talking without inhibitions with me and i've been told many a time that for them,i'm "one of the fellas" :-D love it when they say that!woohoo!

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor