Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.-Leviticus 19:18

Svelte's addendum:...but never love thy neighbour's wife/girlfriend as thy own :-P

in this case,neighbour=pajju :-D

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor