Its like banging your head against a brick wall on this thread. Why do people find it so difficult to understand that not all mothers are fortunate enough to stay at home to look after their children. If financially, my hubby wasn't able to support us, I would have no qualms in going back to work. Ideally, all mothers would like to be at home with their little ones, but sometimes for the littles ones to have a roof over their heads you have to go to work. Its not always out of choice...