PM, the woman got to raise the boy for 10 years now. i do understand its harder than words to detach a mother from her child. i was suggesting what would be better for her in my opinion and have not even gone close to forcing it on her. if at all you thought so. i simply find you as a grumpy numpty on a chicken run all alone. because you simply dont want to either read with thought or are too arrogant to accept others opinion.