Ummjake ... you are not able to understand my point and that car exemplificaiton was totally hillarious.

i am looking into it more like that the mother of they boy definitely has all rights to be with her son. but if she has to start a new begining for herself (which she definitely needs) then having the in-laws to take care of the boy is more helpful than harming. provided, she could visit him whenever she wants and spend short vacations with him.