even though new in the site- i find it very helpful...
i do find readers very smart than i... who's really trying to extend their advices...to think that some of us are really and totally strangers to each others.... still- you're all there...

guys- i really appreciate your words for me... i do accept it constructively...

guess- it may be hard to accept...but guess- i am still not ready to be a hoewrecker.... both sides...