communication....ah!miscommunication rather....i have volumes to say on this but i would rather not.in our case,i say something,he comprehends it to mean something else and vice versa.again,we have both left it to time for both of us to understand what the other person actually meant.

...and trust....that's not something that can dawn on us one fine morning.that too will take time.it may be different in the case of love marriages,coz both individuals have accepted all the good and bad sides of each other and have nevertheless decided to spend the rest of their lives together.such relationships are built solely on the foundation of mutual trust.in arranged marriages,it will be developed only in time.

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor