i do understand what you say...but there are situations when one is expected to behave in a certain way towards the partner just coz u are married to him/her.....like say,u want to stay late at work to finish some important work.in most married couples' viewpoint,it's criminal not to call and inform u'll be late and even if you do,u'll have to furnish them with all details as to why u're sitting late,who else is with you,when will you come home,blah!blah!if the guy/girl calls up home and says so out of his/her own,it's a totally different issue.usually,it's coz they know they'll have to face dire consequences if they don't.

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor