when we go to live in another country,the basic idea shud be to make as much money as possible and get back home asap....or if we intend to settle down there coz we're not comfortable in our own country,then we shud abide by the rules and ways of that country....coz only then can one arrive at a decision to actually settle down there....if one is feeling uncomfortable about it,then they shud go back to where they came from where people live according to their advocated tastes and accepted culture.living in a foreign land with the sole intent of changing any aspect of it is sheer stupidity,IMHO.

Going to church no more makes you a Christian than standing in a garage makes you a car. ~ Garrison Keillor