my friend told me that she was able to forget by:
- watching cartoons, anime movies, comedy movies (
- watching telenovelas, koreanovelas, chinovelas etc
- visit QL, facebook, friendster, myspace, even mannypacquiao.ph to see latest updates re: Manny pacquaio...lol
- cook, wash clothes, buy groceries

in short... make yourself busy with something
dont let your time be idle.. so you will not think any moment you had with your ex-love.

Study shows that doing things like this, will help your androgen/testosterone to be in lower level. And this means your desire for your love one is going to diminish when you make yourself busy with these things... :-)