f a man says i love u d moment he sets his eyes on u, what he actually meant is...i wanna do it with you. come on, u cannot love a person at one glance...besides, love doesn't really happen overnight. we might get infatuated but after then, when we realize that the person is not who we actually expect to be, it fades away...love is not an accidental feeling...it's like a plant that the more u norture it, the further it blossoms, but f u don't take care of it will wither out and attractions fade away...

cheers!!! love with all ur heart, there's nothing to lose.