I must tell u that the feelings are the same on both sides.

Once a Indian fauji (soldier) was given court martial. His friends at his village asked him the reason. He replied, it was due to going on leave. Surprised, his friend again asked, how come army court martial for this simple reason.
Then the fauji clarified. "I was newly married. I asked my officer to give me leave." The officer told, "Jawan do some act of bravery. Then come to me for leave."
So, Fauji went and brought a enemy tank. Immediately he was granted vacation.
There after when ever he wanted leave, he would bring a enemy tank and go home.
Then, His officer asked him, "Tell me, how can you do this without firing a shot and bring enemy tank."
The Fauji replied "Its very easy Sir. I go the border and asks to fellow soldiers on the other side of the fence if any one is newly married and wish to go on leave. And there are always some Fauji brother in Pakistan like me, who cannot go home due to strict officers like you. And all we do is give our tank to them and bring their tank in."