Qataria78 you're right with that attitude but sometimes people abused you for doing it always that cause you to get fed up..

i have a friend who usually made as a laughing stock or has been always a topic in their office for having an attitude like that. He always avoiding arguments so what he's doing to is to keep silent or just walk away so the situation won't go farther..he's always saying "let them be"..but there's an incident that he takes as an opportunity to speak to one of the members of the gossiping group. but he did it thru email. nothing bad words he said, only the truth that will set him free. but if you can see the reactions, the person whom he sends an email, really, really got mad to him..they're doing it at the back of him, but when you let them know the feelings of being the laughing stock...bad!!!!

So, for all the people here at the forum, i just want to remind the Golden rule : Do not do unto the others what others don't want to do unto you..love people like loving yourself...

Be contented..Be always thankful for what you have !!