There are so many things done behind closed doors, and no one cares. But when it is brought out to the public, everyone is outraged. Isn't that normal? I have a gazillion friends from everywhere and with different beliefs. We talk about everything and anything, but once personal sex fantasies come up? -- that is just crossing the line. Why would I want to know what others are doing on that side of their lives? -- In Islam it is Haram to boast about your relationship with your wife/husband -- let alone freely talking about what shouldn't be done. Itha buleeytum, fa'istatiru !! That is what we learned growing up. What a shame, and how sad.