...just like what britexpat said.

If you asked the girl on a date or a term, she says she's busy or doesn't like it that way. If you asked her "Ok you do it. Invite me" as you wanna trust her confidence, she can't even do it. It may lead to confusion, and if the man suddenly lost his patience, the 'turn off' point comes all the sudden.

"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach