Ummmm....

So although I said: "I don’t think she was motivated by getting permanent leave to remain in the UK because she likes red buses and warm beer. I think it had something to do with her wanting to remain alive."

You think I really meant:
"fubar,so you're saying she wanted to give up the palace,the Merc's,the designer clothes,seemingly limitless bank account to live like a commoner in the UK out of choice??..."

I can see why you're confused. I was so unclear in my post.

And as for not wanting to take a chance by returning, I obviously wasn't clear when I wrote this either:

"And if family members kill girls for using Facebook, then perhaps she's better not taking the chance of returning."