to ask from one husband after his trip. But contrary to what you suggest,that is not all true for some wives. As you read the wife's testimony here:

"Later, the young woman was shocked to see that she had also contracted Aids when she underwent medical tests following the second pregnancy.
"When I informed him about this, his reaction was more shocking and mindboggling." Her husband divorced her accusing her of "disloyalty and cheating", she said."