"cheating, generally, isnt a planned thing"
That's why it's more dangerous (from a health point of view)

"Cant think of a weaker reason for starting a supposedly 'lifelong' relationship"
Here how it works:
If a Muslim wants to have another wife, he will have to CHOOSE WELL, just like he did when he first got married ... same procedure.

Now tell me: if you fall in love with another woman, and still love your wife, what do you normally do? (Not YOU, but someone with the western mindset)

I've put both in the same context because I think that most cheaters do repeat it over and over again.

Failing to plan is planning to fail :)

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