I don't see agree that you can compare a 60/17 sexual relationship with an incestual one.

Even if both involve consent, the key difference is that there is a body of medical evidence that shows that the risks of bearing a child with genetic defects would be greatly increased if a brother impregnated his sister.

As far as I'm concerned, the reason siblings can't marry is based on this medical evidence.

As for an older man with a younger woman, if he's virile and she's receptive, then go ahead, have a child.

What's the problem? Where's the harm? What's the risk?