2 wives and 2 mistresses??

I thought it's 2 wives and 1 soon-to-be wife who had a lesbo lover. So the man is not doing anything wrong at all. I'm given to understand that Muslims are allowed to marry 4 wives and one of the possible reasons is if it's necessary to take care of a particular woman. One of the preconditions - he would have to be able to take care of his earlier 2 wives and families. Some or many people see that as oppressive to the wives, etc because they judge only according to their own perceptions and jump to conclusions.

Btw, the fact that fiancee's lover threatened him earlier because of her jealousy, is rather immaterial because what right does the lesbo have according to the laws of the land (and religion, for that matter)?

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