seny0rita said ..but at all the other else, men cost us a lot! costs us a lot of - stress, self-loath, low self esteem, bitterness, pain, emotional suffering..brain damage!lol"

Many a true word said in jest. ;0)
God has been merciful for my blank slate. I'm glad I have so far avoided being shackled to a lame duck or that blank slate would have been messed up again.

/In reality, my accident which wiped out my memory initially, rebooted,if you will - set me free from past emotional entanglements. I only remember what I consciously made the effort to recall - work, studies, family and friends. For that and many other things, I am grateful to God.

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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama