preciousness of any thing in this world will be worth only if its in the correct status. this is not the protection by men or by any means, the secret of the beauty. when its a secret , its always valued, what happens when its a pubilc secret. many women in many countries have tried to keep the secret as a secret , but they give up, i guess in arab countries they really know what s this secret can bring them. do you think men here are controling women, well i guess not, its a matter of understanding the value of them.